He Loves Making Love after Puffing a Reefer

As I walked into the room, to my surprise there he was. With the covers pulled up close to his face in an attempt of hiding his innocent sexual demeanor. I saw a shadow lying there in the darkness of

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Is It Good To You: “Customizing your relationship”

Equality and equity are general categories that describes agreed upon expectation. In our relationships because we did not continue to do the self-work we were unclear or forgot what was important to

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Sex with the light on: the complexity of shame and disclosure:

Sex with the light on: the complexity of shame and disclosure:

Have you ever really made love with another person full disclosure and all? Many of us are lights off people when it comes to sex. Nobody wants the off chance that right in the midst of a fantasy, you

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Ever been with a guy who seemed…….

“Ever been with a guy who seemed to have everything that you’re looking for, but the sex is just blah?”A good friend of mine asked me this question the other day in regards to his current situat

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Intimacy freak-out

Intimacy freak-out

“Intimacy freak-out.” You’ve seen it before. You’ve probably encountered it during your dating escapades. It happens when things seem to be going famously with that special guy you’ve been d

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